I started Gathering in October 2020 after deciding to take a months-long social media hiatus. First I posted little musings, and then I began writing about being away from social media. Socially Awkward was an attempt to give the newsletter a focus, but it hasn’t felt right, and now I am transforming Gathering/Socially Awkward into Smultronställe. Smultronställe is a Swedish word literally meaning “a place of wild strawberries.” An idyllic place overflowing with beauty.
For nearly two decades I’ve been a serious fan of Brain Pickings, an incredible website curated by Maria Popova. I’ve also relied on the podcast On Being, which “pursues deep thinking and moral imagination, social courage and joy, to renew inner life, outer life, and life together.” Two years ago, when I sold my book, I was planning on creating a website in the spirit of these two beautiful things— where I could forage for gorgeous and heart-infusing art, writing, people, natural phenomenon, and objects. Then I was notified I’d been chosen to go to the Czech Republic for a Fulbright ETA, and I did that.
After a massive detour (most of us have taken massive detours over the past two years), here I am, starting the thing I wanted to start years ago. I am leaving my full-time nanny job and expanding into myself not only as a writer, but also as someone who wants to cultivate something beautiful— a community and a refuge.
I need you to help me create this, and I’m not talking about paid subscriptions.
I need your participation. Your readership. I need you to open my emails sometimes, to read, to comment, to volunteer your own beautiful contributions.
I know I have sometimes been inconsistent with my newsletter, and this is a product of my full-time day job. But Smultronställe, come September, will be folded into my life as part of my full-time job. I am going to be pouring a lot into this newsletter and I would love for you to be a part of it all.
Whether you’re a paying subscriber or not, you’ll receive Vellichor, my Sunday newsletter. Paying subscribers will have the opportunity to participate in write-ins and will receive my Wednesday Writing Notes. Whether you are a paid subscriber or not, you are a deeply valued part of this community.
This is what I need from you today:
Comment on this post with one (or more) things you have been finding beautiful and heartening lately. Tell me what it is, and tell me why is it.
Tell me about one thing you have carried with you through your life. An object, a sentence, a phrase, a picture, that gives you courage and/or comfort.
Share any ideas or thoughts you have about what you want this community to look like, and what you’ve loved about this newsletter as well as what you’d love to see.
Every comment of yours will help brighten and strengthen this community. I can’t wait to send you the newsletter this Sunday and show you the new format!
With love,
Stacy
Hey Stacy, I've been loving Kate Rusby's cover of "Manic Monday" because it somehow finds me where I'm at. I've been grateful for my limping-along garden because it still sees fit to reward me with gifts even though I can't control the weather (which has been awful for my garden!) and I can barely keep my head in the game this deep into a hot, distressing summer. I've been reading Cosmos and Psyche and loving my own feelings of fascination. And my best inspiration and source of joy right now is the 1911 clawfoot tub I just bought to build myself an outdoor soaking garden in my back yard. It's daunting, but I can't wait to prove to myself I can get it done. I love keeping up with your newsletter as I'm able... Keep on being your wonderful self!
Hi Stacy,
I've really been enjoying Billie Eilish's new album these past couple of days, as well as Fiona Apple's album that came out last year. For most of this year and last year, I've been stuck at home and trying to engage in art that feels transportive.
A quote that I found earlier this year and that's given me comfort: "I said to my soul, be still, and wait without hope, for hope would be hope for the wrong thing; wait without love, for love would be love of the wrong thing; there is yet faith but the faith and the love and the hope are all in the waiting. Wait without thought, for you are not ready for thought: So the darkness shall be the light, and the stillness the dancing."
It's from "East Coker" by T.S. Eliot.
Finally, I've loved the evolution of your newsletter and don't have any suggestions so far.