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Resting in New Orleans

Resting in New Orleans

letting go of destructive narratives and allowing myself to heal

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Aug 10, 2023
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colors, colors, colors in one of the most beautiful cities in the world

I’ve wanted to visit New Orleans since I was eleven years-old. My mom had a friend that lived there; a jazz musician I admired.

In 2015, after graduating from my MFA, I drove the Natchez Trace Parkway through the south— the one region of the United States I hadn’t explored. But when I reached New Orleans I drove past the city, knowing that my car full of stuff, including my bike, would get broken into if I stopped in any city.

One of the reasons I chose the PhD program in Tallahassee was its proximity to many cities I’d always wanted to explore: especially Atlanta and New Orleans. So, when I saw a pet-sit here in New Orleans, I jumped on it.

The nice thing about visiting a place when you live within driving distance is the lack of pressure. I haven’t felt the pressing need to explore everything in this trip, which is good, because there’s a record-breaking heat wave and it’s truly hot AF.

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